Damia - Tantrums ke Jeles??!

What is TANTRUMS ????

A tantrum is an emotional outburst of ill humor or a fit of bad temper wherein the 'higher' cognitive functions are unable to stop the emotional expression of the putative 'lower' (emotional and physical) functions. It can be categorized by an irrational fit of crying, screaming, defiance, angry ranting and a resistance to every attempt at pacification in which even physical control is lost. The person may not stand or sit on their own. Even when the "goal" of the person is met, he or she is not calmed.

Lately nih, pe'el Damia agak berlainan sket. Ada masa nampak macam TANTRUMS and kekadang macam kakak yg keJELESan. Sbb...

• Setiap kali bangun pagi mesti nangis if tak nampak nenek kat sbelah.  Siap dia meraba-raba kat sbleh dia to make sure nenek ada. Momma pujuk pun tak jalan. Kene pimpin tangan dia sampai jumpa nenek.

• Malam-malam nak tido lewat jer... jadi cam hyperactive

• Asyik nak nenek dukong pakai baby wearing jer. Siap amik and suh pakai tuh... Tak tahan tengok. Geram and klakor pun ada kekadang tuh

• Main susu - tumpahkan satu bilik. Bila tegur lagi dia buat and marah kita plak... abis satu bilik momma bersemut :( sabar jer laaa

• Suka main baby wipe. Pantang jumpa pasti dia amik and lap apa shj yg dia suka satu bilik. Tak dapat ala-ala ngamuks gitu.

• Tengah hari/petang mesti nak ajak jalan keluar rumah. Siap amik kasut suh pakaikan. Kalo tak layan, apa lagi melalak dia.

• Suka main tangga. Dah pandai naik dan turun tangga sesorang. Ishh seriau momma.

• Tak mahu pakai baju dan seluar. Bila pakai pempers asyik dibuka nya... geram. Nak pakaikan CD/Pampers kene guling-guling kami. Tapi biasa momma mesti menang. Huhu...

• Kekadang geram dengan tempat tido adik Dzakirah. Dia akan g kat adik Dzakirah,  tarik bantal kepala Dzakirah. Then tarik alas tempat tido Dzakirah then buang bantal-bantal Dzakirah kat bawah katil. Tengok tuh...

Tapikan... Damia sayang adik Dzakirah tau... Tak caya ker?? Cuba tengok kat bawah tuh...

Damia sayang adik Dzakirah laaa!!! 

So in order momma to handle keJELESan Damia momma :-

• Lebih kerapkan Spent time together-gether with Damia especially bila lil Dzakirah tido. Normally we ouls akan guling-guling tgk CD together-gether, menari, Hug & kisses spt dipenghujung CD Barney.
• Always ajak Damia tolong momma esp tolong amik kan pampers adik, tuala adik, bantal adik then puji la kata kakak baik & rajin sgt
• Bagi Damia mingle with adik i.e dukong adik di riba & ajar kiss adik
• Slow talk, hug and kiss Damia bila Damia buat nakal. Cakap momma sayang kakak & bg kiss yg "mendalam". She can understand. Then kami akan hug macam dlm CD barney tuh lagi...
• Bila adik menyusu ajak skali Damia menyusu dgn momma, so that dia tak rasa terpinggir. Since Damia dah on formula milk (6 months) susah gak nk ajak dia tendum nursing... bila kt sua dia senyum and tutup balik "B" momma. memula dia nk gak ASI momma dlm botol, tapi skrg dah tak nak. Pandai dia bezakan rasa formula dgn ASI... bijak ler anak momma nih [ mommies ada tips tak cane nk bg Damia menyusu dgn momma semula... plssss. buntu nih ]
• Jgn lupa bg morning and good nite kiss to both of them.
  

p/s: Momma masih study pasal TANTRUMS nih... nanti momma update. You ouls pun bleh g blog MamaMiya pasal tips TANTRUMS di SINI. Thanks dear for sharing!